Yes, a return post about sex. After all, love and sex are sometimes regarded as partners in crime. I know that it is possible to have sex without love and love without sex but I just don't think that way. I have the most loving and wonderful boyfriend ever but ever since we moved in together our sex life has been lacking. And sometimes even non existent. It isn't that I've gained weight, or vice versa. In fact, I want to hump him right now. The only problem is that is he never "in the mood" which does not go to say that he does not find me attractive. I'm sure he must because he hasn't stopped being affectionate, like right now he's rubbing my leg and kissing me on the forehead. But the act of sex seems like too much work for him or he just doesn't seem to need it. I haven't let it affect our relationship. We still do things normally, abate the sex part. But a friend of mine is going through the same thing as I am, having recently moved in with her BF, her sex life has also slowed. At any rate, the point is that we were sitting on the couch watching tv and he's eating chocolate. LOTS of chocolate. Chocolate ice cream, chocolate milk, little chocolate truffles, anything chocolate is his bag. And mostly it's my fault because I love bringing home chocolate bits for him to eat. So is it that chocolate, which produces the same feelings in the brain as sex, is filling my boyfriend's appetite so that he doesn't think about sex or want or need it? Help.
P.S. I have tried everything everyone has asked me to. Sexy underwear, mood lighting, dinner making, kinky toys, porn. *le sigh*
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Good grief! Well, actually, I blogged about an article in the Sun which said that men are no longer as interested in sex as they used to be. (The Sun argues that it's feminism; I think it's just work-related stress.) So this could be a part of that phenomenon.
maybe because ur 'desperate' and keeps asking for it...he might want to do the chasing.